I don't really like the idea, but as you said, I know (or think!) it does nothing, so what's the harm? It's like when people say they'll pray for me, it makes me frown in my head, but I don't verbally attack them for it, since what's it going to do? If they want to waste their time... it's their time to waste.

There's always the chance I'm wrong, too. In which case: Thanks! Not just to you folks, but to any group that cared and tried.

Live and let live. So long as it's something like proxy baptisms that I don't even have to know about, I don't care. Someone gets in my face and tells me I'm going to hell because of X reasons? Totally different. I can't really see why anyone would be offended by the baptism thing.